Gary Boothby

"Gary, how to put into words just how much I thought of you, what you meant and the impact you had…

There is just no other DoF like you and working with you every day was an absolute pleasure. You were inspiring and taught me so much, you encouraged and supported me and showed me that ‘doing the right thing’ was always key above all. You always lead with positivity and calm and if times got challenging, everything always felt better after a conversation with you.
You loved the NHS and CHFT and genuinely cared about each member of the Finance team and you showed this in a way that made you completely approachable by everyone, a special gift. When you asked how someone was or about their family, this was because you meant it and really wanted to hear their answer, not because you felt you should.
You always championed your Finance team at every opportunity, but we were just so proud to work for you.
You always went out of your way to check in with me, even when you yourself were going through a difficult time – you never made things about you and so sometimes we had to force this and make sure you were being looked after, something you did your very best to resist! Your continual positive, kind and caring nature was always there, I hope you knew how wonderful you were.
I miss our long chats, I miss those quick catch ups while you ate your soup and butties before your next meeting, I miss just seeing you across the office, I miss your funny stories, your sense of humour, how sometimes you would just come out with something and say it as it was, no filters!! The list is long. I feel so blessed to have shared, laughed and cried with you, you always listened.

It still doesn’t feel real that you aren’t here but wow, what a legacy you left behind – thank you for everything, your guidance, your friendship, and I promise to spend each day trying to be a bit more like you.

Rest well Gary.

Helen xxxxx"

shared by Helen Gaukroger, 3 days ago

"Gary was such a gentle giant; kind, caring, humorous and always up for a chat with a genuine interest in others. He had a knack of explaining the most complicated of finance technicalities to those with a less finance focussed brain that made you understand and feel like no question was silly. His sense of calm in challenging times always made you feel that all will be well. A compassionate leader and a truly great gentleman. It was a privilege to work with you Gary. You are sorely missed and leave a lasting legacy at CHFT. My sincere condolences to your family xxxx"

shared by Bex Sharpe, 3 days ago

"I have left writing this memory until the last minute as I have really struggled to find the words to do justice to Gary’s memory.
From the moment he started in Finance at CHFT Gary was a true gentleman, kind, compassionate, focussed, extremely professional but with a fantastic sense of humour and some hilarious quips.
As DoF Gary went out of his way to make everyone feel valued at work and was genuinely interested in your ideas, concerns and supportive of your aspirations. Last year I had the pleasure of showing Gary the new Community space at Dean Clough and despite having a boot on his foot, Gary was determined to do the hike to the parking meter (as that is what patients would have to do) and he was straight into the clinical areas, speaking to the Physio’s about what they thought of the new location and if they had done their staff survey! The welfare and experience of colleagues and patients was at the heart of all his questions.
Gary always took time to ask about my daughter and the shenanigans she had been up to but it was when talking about his own family that Gary shone brightest. Whether it was holidays with the family, thinking about refurbing the en suite, looking after the baby in York or going to watch Leeds United, the absolute pride and love Gary had for his family was evident in bucket loads.
I feel extremely privileged to have been part of Gary’s team, his approach, professionalism and general attitude to work and life will be a legacy and benchmark for many years to come."

shared by Vicky Hattersley, 3 days ago

"It is hard to put into words the impact that one individual can have on so many people, both personally and professionally. Gary was an inspiration to us all, a true gentlemen who has had a remarkable impact on so many individuals, CHFT and the wider NHS.

Gary is a miss to me personally, always there to provide support and leadership whilst managing his own personal challenges.

His legacy will continue with us."

shared by Stuart Baron, 4 days ago

"I'd not meet Gary before he joined us 10 years ago, but from day one it was clear he was a people person, always asking how my daughter was getting on at school and being genuinley interested, while being evidently proud of his own families achievements.
Gary had a great leadership style, he'd let you get on with it, and trusted you to do it right whilst appreacting the complexites of accounting and the time and effort put in to getting it right. There are somethings that will always stay with me about Gary, they way he dealt with his own personal challenges, which are only to be admired, my favourite saying "crack on", and his pot noodle sandwhiches!. Gary leaves a big whole in our team but a great leagacy. My condolences to Treena, Harry, Alice and Archie"

shared by Zoe Quarmby, 4 days ago

"Gary ...
Thank you for checking in on me, giving me your time, listening, supporting and encouraging me - not just for work but chatting and joking about anything and everything. Somehow you seemed to find the time to do this for all of us.

Thank you for your leadership, professionalism, pragmatism, genuine care and compassion. And thank you for reminding us to do the right things for the benefit of our patients. I was continually impressed by your uncomplaining attitude, just getting on with it despite your personal challenges. It was never about you - you were still always more interested in everyone else.

Your legacy will be a generation of caring colleagues and compassionate leaders inspired by your example and passing it on.

The words 'he will be missed' have rarely been more true. You were a great FD but an even better (Yorkshire) man and it was a privilege to know you. I remember you saying that you liked the Toby Carvery because you could eat there 3 or 4 times for the price of a night at Eric's ... tha's reyt theer lad!

I can only imagine how much more you will be missed by Treena and your family. I truly hope that they find comfort in knowing how admired, respected and loved you were."

shared by Michael Wescott, 2 weeks ago

"Gary, always my number one cheerleader. He knew I was capable of so much more than I did.
He always had a story for every situation and could relate to anyone about anything. So many random conversations that helped me have a better day. There are moments now when I think “I need to tell Gary” Then realise that I can’t. No matter what he was facing he would take the time to ask, “are YOU ok?” and genuinely mean it. He prided himself on knowing every member of his team and always made a point of welcoming new starters. He would initiate any conversation by telling them who he knew from whichever organisation they had joined us from. There were very few places where Gary didn’t know someone.
On snow days, Gary and I were generally the first ones in, simply because we lived closest. He usually joked that it was cheaper to come into work than put the heating on at home. Not sure if this was Yorkshire or Finance talking, but he wasn’t wrong. Always a fan of a sweet treat, one of Gary’s lesser-known skills was the ability to know if there was Haribo in our office from the other side of the building.
Gary and I had very different tastes, but he always listened. He was so proud of himself a couple of years ago when he came up with the idea to buy me vouchers for the theatre. Unfortunately, I didn’t read it properly and when he gave me the voucher (Thanks Treena) in a Christmas card from a department store, I thought it was a voucher from there. When I confessed a couple of weeks later, he expressed he had been disappointed that I hadn’t been more impressed with him.
I will miss Gary’s sense of humour and words of wisdom. While he gave as good as he got, he was never afraid to be the butt of a joke and recognised the importance of not always taking life too seriously."

shared by Rochelle, 2 weeks ago

"Gary was a truly inspirational leader. He knew what was important and always put patients at the heart of any decisions. He was able to communicate in a really straightforward and down to earth way so everyone could understand, which is not easy with some of the complex financial information! He had an ability to talk to everyone at their level and always put people at ease.
He was a really kind, warm, generous man who was interested in everyone and always made time for people. He kept positive despite his difficult health issues.
It was an absolute privilege to work with Gary - he will be hugely missed by so many colleagues."

shared by Julie O'Riordan, 1 month ago

"So many lovely tributes to Gary it is difficult to know what more to say or how to express the sadness of losing someone as genuine and considerate as Gary. Having worked with Gary many years ago before CHFT, and only seeing him a couple of times since, he still made a lasting impact because of that strength of personality and his kindness. People like Gary stay in our memories for all the right reasons. My condolences to his family."

shared by Cath Craddock, 1 month ago

"I was talking to my family about Gary recently and I said he was just a truly decent and beautiful man. In his role for exactly the right reasons ....to make a difference for our patients and teams. I was always so in awe of how kind , calm and compassionate Gary was in every interaction and often in very difficult circumstances. I used to love my chats with him in Acre Mill at the end of the day, he always talked so fondly about his family and the love and pride he had for them shone through. He was so pleased in the summer when he'd figured out a way to get through the airport with all of his paraphernalia and Im so happy that he had the chance to make those special memories. I was always so in awe of how much Gary was managing that would topple many people , Gary took on so much with grace, dignity and determination and was never defined by the many issues he was facing. A true gentleman and so self deprecating. When he was in work with his foot cast on we would all have to fight the urge to smother him and I once said Gary I know I'm a bit too much for you but please let me fuss you a little bit !! He never would as he wanted to quietly come to work and get on with things with dignity and professionalism. Gary was my buddy one night when we went live with EPR and I've never seen anyone so pleased to be visiting the wards , so at ease talking to patients and supporting our teams he was truly in his element. I will be forever grateful that I had the chance to work with Gary and watch him in action. He taught me so much about what being a great leader is but mostly about being such a kind and caring human and leaving such a beautiful mark on the world. How blessed we all are to have known such an amazing man xx"

shared by Jo Middleton, 1 month ago

"When I think about Gary, what I see is one of the truest examples of humilty and courage I've ever known in my life.

He was curious and always asked good questions. When I prepared for meetings where I would have to present to him, I would always think "what is Gary going to ask about this?" and that always pushed me to dig deeper in my work.

He has left us with a rich legacy of how to be a leader, a manager, and an all-round top person."

shared by Ruth Lush, 1 month ago

"I first met Gary when he was still working at Mid Yorks and I was at CHFT. I was covering an external meeting at Batley and turned up not knowing anyone and not feeling entirely sure what I was meant to be doing ! Gary must have sensed my uncertainty as he came straight over to chat and put me at ease. He then said if I wanted to talk through the work that needed doing when I was back in the office I could ring him which I happily did. On another occasion when he had started as Director of Finance at CHFT he encouraged me to go for a job and spent time talking it through with me. I was initially hesitant as it involved managing a fairly large team but he encouraged me saying that "All you need to be a good manager is to listen to people and try and help them" To me this really highlights how Gary was always so kind , encouraging and supportive. He was an effective and compassionate leader and we will all miss him hugely. My heartfelt condolences to Treena, Harry, Alice and Archie as well as Gary's wider family and friends. I hope that seeing the enormously positive impact Gary has had on the lives of so many people will bring some comfort."

shared by Jane Bullas, 1 month ago

"Gary was my first ever Finance Director, and set a standard that I didn't learn until much later was higher than most leaders will reach. He cared passionately and transparently for the patients, his colleagues, and the community. He led a culture in which you mattered no matter who you were, and took pride in knowing and valuing his staff, regardless of how closely you would work together. He was kind, funny and a pleasure to work with and under.

When I tell people stories of my time at CHFT, and how the senior leadership encouraged me in every way, I am often met with surprise that I was acknowledged, valued and championed as such a junior member of staff. But I'm not surprised. Instead I tell them that's the standard I expect, because Gary led a team that showed me that caring and present leadership is possible and powerful. Thank you for giving me such a strong foundation of what good finance and good leadership should look like. Thank you for being an amazing person. My sincere condolences to your family"

shared by Elise McAlpine, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary inbetween recruitment for a Head of Procurement about 10 years ago. Absololutely supportive of decisions I made about the service I run and the med/surg consumables I purchase that were often not the cheapest. He pushed and challenged me to be representative at the newly formed WYAAT meetings and that gave me the confidence to set up a separate WYICS sub group that is thriving today. His down to earth guidance was invaluable and over the years we often walked up to Lindley together or I'd see him in the rec with his wife or children. He shared with me he was really looking forward to going on holiday with his daughter abroad and he was proud of all of his three children. In 2016, Gary nominated me for a Celebrating Success award under the category of Support Service Superstar which I won - when I look at that award, I will always think of Gary and the funny times. Savings are a big part of my job, and looking at all of these wonderful memories from colleagues at CHFT, these are our collective savings for Garys family! xxx"

shared by Jaqui, 1 month ago

"Gary will be so deeply missed at CHFT. A total gentleman who was so kind and compassionate. Whatever he did, despite the financial pressures, he absolutely held the patients and colleagues as the focus of everything he did. An inspiration to all and an example to us all of always doing the right thing. It has truly been a privilege working alongside such an exceptional guy."

shared by Neeraj Bhasin, 1 month ago

"I only knew Gary a short time, he offered me my current role 1 year previous to the day of when he passed which hurt when the news came out but that the effect he had on people . Such a kind hearted person who provided a great deal of support to everybody. He will be missed."

shared by Ian Stephenson, 1 month ago

"I’d known Gary for some time when he became Kirklees place Finance lead around 4 years ago. He was so well suited to this role - well respected by all his colleagues, calm under pressure and also kind and approachable. I always appreciated his support and advice and he was a valued member of our team. He had a lovely sense of humour that helped see us through some challenging times, and remained committed to patients, even during his own ill health.
My sincere condolences to Gary’s family, you are all in our thoughts."

shared by Carol Mckenna, 1 month ago

"Gary was one of those rare people you feel genuinely lucky to have crossed paths with. He had a warmth that put you at ease instantly and a way of engaging in conversation that made you feel truly seen. Whatever was happening around him, he always found a moment to stop, connect and give you his full attention. He could make you laugh with his quick wit, challenge you with his insight and leave you thinking long after the conversation ended. Working with Gary has been a personal and professional privilege. I am thankful to have known him."

shared by Jason Eddleston, 1 month ago

"I remember meeting Gary for the first time at my interview to join CHFT seven years ago. From that very first conversation, he showed such kindness, compassion, encouragement and just the right amount of challenge — qualities that defined him as both a leader and a person.

Taking me under his wing in 2019, I have so many happy memories of working alongside him, particularly during the early days of mobilising CHFT Charity. I will always smile when I think of his familiar, cheeky encouragement: “Come on Emma, where are the big ticket items?”

Gary was not only a valued colleague and mentor, but a true gentleman in every aspect of his life and I will sorely miss our catch ups.

I am deeply saddened by his passing. My heartfelt condolences and thoughts are with Gary’s family at this incredibly difficult time.

I will continue to honour Gary in my work by striving to ensure the continued success of CHFT Charity — something he was immensely proud to help build in its early days."

shared by Emma Kovaleski, 1 month ago

"Just heard this truly sad news , sending my heartfelt condolences to his family. I had the priviledge to work with Gary for many years, such a gentleman who always had a smile and time for a chat, especially about our beloved Leeds United . RIP"

shared by Sharon Berry, 1 month ago

"I will never forget that dark winter evening. It was during lockdown, not long after I had started my apprenticeship at CHFT. I was getting on with my work when I suddenly received a Teams call from Gary. He said he had heard about me and simply wanted to have a chat and get to know me better.

That small, unexpected act of kindness made me feel truly valued and supported. It showed the kind of person he was — someone who genuinely cared about others and always took the time to connect with people. He embodied the Trust’s values and was a true role model to so many. He was, without a doubt, the right person in the right place, and his impact will not be forgotten.

You will be forever remembered, Gary. Rest in peace."

shared by Kinga Ross, 1 month ago

"Gary was such a kind and caring man. Whilst he was our DOF, he was a friend first and would stop for a chat with anyone. I will always remember his Friday afternoon walks through Acre Mill to check in on us all and chat about weekend plans and even calling us during Covid to see everyone was ok. Gary leaves a massive hole in our team and will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Rest in peace Gary x"

shared by Victoria Walton, 1 month ago

"Gary will be remembered for far more than being our DOF, he balanced leadership with kindness & accountability with empathy.
He always had time to chat, perching on the end of your desk, showing a genuine interest in your life and showing he cared.

In Covid times he asked me to work with him on the finances for CHFT & John Smiths Stadium, covering for him
in the regional meetings with the other DOF's, believing in me when I doubted myself.

Gary was approachable listening to my ideas & inspired me to always think outside the box.
I’ll always be grateful for the lessons he taught, the patience he showed, and the encouragement he gave.

Gary was one in a million he leaves behind warmth, compassion, and the ripple effect of every gentle thing he did."

shared by Julie Wood, 1 month ago

"Deepest condolences to Gary's family and friends on the sad loss of such a lovely kind, clever, caring, professional and brave man, who always did the right things for patients, was a friendly ear ready to help and kept his sense of humour through all his healthcare challenges. He is sorely missed."

shared by Andrea McCourt, 1 month ago

"It was conversations with Gary that led me to join CHFT, and from the very start it was clear why he was so well regarded across West Yorkshire — he was genuine, thoughtful, and deeply committed to doing the right thing.
Gary had a natural warmth. He spoke about his family with such pride, and he showed that same genuine interest in yours, always remembering what mattered to you. He always supported me and I will always be grateful for his encouragement.
Even when he had to deliver difficult messages, Gary approached everything with compassion, honesty, and care. He always came back to one question: “What is the right thing to do?” Patients came first for him — always — and his leadership reflected that.
Gary was a truly good man and will be missed."

shared by Helen Rees, 1 month ago

"I've known Gary on and off for many years, and he really was the best of us. For everything Gary has had to deal with over the years, I can’t imagine anyone who could have dealt with it better than Gary. He carried it all, and the pressures of the job, with warmth, humour and a brightness which lifted every meeting he was in.

I’ll always remember Gary as the person who said his only job was talking, lucky to be surrounded by brilliant colleagues who did the real work, and like others have shared, he could talk about anything with anyone.

I loved his stories about his family, from the chaos of going through airport security to trips to watch the football. There was always a funny tale to be told, and Gary told them well, I’m going to miss the stories, I’m going to miss him.

Thanks for being there for so many people Gary, you’ll be hugely missed and I doubt we’ll ever find anyone to replace what we’ve lost."

shared by Ben Roberts, 1 month ago

"Gary was a kind, funny, and clever man. He has left a lasting legacy through his friendships and work that has had such an impact on so many people. He made people feel special and always had time for everyone. I will hugely miss Gary, and I feel very grateful to have had the privilege to have been his colleague. My sympathy and thoughts are with his loved ones and family."

shared by Anna Basford, 1 month ago

"I had the privilege of working with Gary for 18 months prior to my early retirement. Gary was the most supportive and caring Director I’ve ever had the pleasure of working for. He always had time to listen, help and support whether it was work related or otherwise. He had the ability and personality to make colleagues feel significant and appreciated for all their efforts. What a huge and heart breaking loss to his family, whom he cherished and talked of often, and also a sad loss to CHFT."

shared by Alison Wilson, 1 month ago

"I have such fond memories of Gary, he was such an incredible person. He was kind, approachable and down to earth. Gary always had time for me and the team, he was great company and strived to do the best for everyone, making sure that we all had good outcomes. I learned so much about 'health economics' from Gary, I could sit and listen to him for hours. He enjoyed a cuppa and sometimes a sneaky bacon butty and especially a slice of cake, I will miss Gary, he was so special and I have been so blessed to have known him. Sending all my love and condolences to Gary's wife and family."

shared by Donna Brown, 1 month ago

"I have worked with Gary on and off over many years as part of the NHS Finance community. As well as being brilliant at his job he was also kind, considerate and always wanted to know how I was. Even when he was poorly he just kept going. He cared about the patients and he will be very much missed. Ian."

shared by Ian Currell, 1 month ago

"When Gary first came to CHFT we all sat together in the Acre Mill. He called me the adopted one as I was the only one not working in finance. One day I mentioned that my daughter was going to one of her first birthday parties, a superhero party where all the girls were dressing up as super woman, but she wanted to be spiderman to be different. The next day Gary not only turned up with Archie's superman costume, but his teddy's constume too so that she could take her favourite toy with her. I'll never forget that, but thats who Gary was, a lovely genuine, kind and also brilliant man who always had time for everyone. We will all miss him very much"

shared by Lisa Williams, 1 month ago

"I will always remember the interest and care that Gary took in supporting the development of Clinical Heath Psychology at CHFT. I was so touched when he showed genuine care and interest in me and my role; taking the time, effort and energy to respond to my request to meet, and to support me in shaping my work with most chance of success. I knew that he wanted to do the "right thing" wherever he could, and truly cared about the work that I was doing with patients. I believe that the positive culture that I continue to experience amongst so many of the finance departments across the trust, are in part a testament to the model and standard he demonstrated from the very top and I hope that this legacy will live on. You will be greatly missed by many."

shared by Hannah Gormley, 1 month ago

"As the Specialist Nurse for Organ Donation at CHFT I met and worked alongside Gary many times over the years - during education events and committee meetings for Organ Donation. What a lovely man he was, such a sad loss, despite how poorly he sometimes appeared to be, he always said yes to anything he could do to help us promote donation locally and to share his own transplant story with others. He will be very sadly missed by everyone who had the privilege of working alongside him."

shared by Jayne Greenhalgh, 1 month ago

"Firstly to Gary's family, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I can't begin to imagine the impact that this will have had on you all, and I hope that these messages give you a sense of how much Gary was liked, respected and valued by all of those he came into contact with during his NHS finance career. I have known Gary since 2013 when he was working at Mid-Yorkshire and have continued to have regular contact with him since then. Gary was a values-driven, passionate and committed NHS leader who would strive to "do the right thing". The right thing was patients and their care, and this shone through even in sometimes technical finance discussions he would have with colleagues. He was always approachable and would always support colleagues. I have only ever heard people speak about Gary well. He continued to work despite his health conditions and his stoic nature kept him going. The last communication I had with Gary was by email when he was last in hospital; even then, his opening line was to ask if I had a good holiday, which given what Gary was going through at the time was typical of him to think of others. He will be hugely missed by all who knew him. So sorry. Jonathan"

shared by Jonathan Webb, 1 month ago

"Gary was an utterly genuine, kind and caring person. The outpouring of love and respect from those who knew or worked with him proves just that. There is a Gary shaped hole at CHFT that will never quite be filled. My thoughts are with his family and those close to him."

shared by Jacqui Booth, 1 month ago

"Our lives are better for having known you Gary, you believed in me , I wouldn't be where I am today without your support. You always took the time to check in, sitting at my desk on Friday afternoons, laughing and joking, offering guidance in the more serious moments. My sincere condolences to your family xxx"

shared by Kay Bryan, 1 month ago

"Gary - Simply one of the best. A true gentleman that actively listened, was responsive and cared. Fly high Gary x"

shared by Julie Mellor, 1 month ago

"The desk still holds your quiet grace,
a pen at rest, a coffee trace;
yet absence hums in every chair,
a silence folded in the air.
We knew your laughter, warm and clear,
the steady hand that calmed our fear;
you built each day with patient art,
and left your mark in every heart.
Though work moves on, the hours turn,
there’s something here we can’t unlearn:
that kindness lives beyond the end,
and every soul leaves light to lend.
So may you walk where mornings bloom,
beyond the shadow, past the gloom;
and know that here, in thought and name,
your spirit’s ember stays the same."

shared by Zeenat Khaliq, 1 month ago

"I knew Gary before he came to work at CHFT, his eldest son Harry played football at Westend with my eldest son, he would stand with the footie mums and chat away, we were all Huddersfield Town supporters and unfortunately Gary was a Leeds UTD fan, we would have strong friendly conversations about our rival teams lots of laughter and banter. Then Gary appeared at CHFT in a very serious and important job, he was just the same. he made time to check in on you ask how you were doing and was interested what was going on in your life. He was a true gentleman, an amazing boss and outstanding colleague. Nobody can fill Gary's shoes, he will be missed at CHFT. Thinking of his family at this sad time."

shared by Mandy, 1 month ago

"A true gentleman. A brilliant gifted helpful colleague and an inspiration to me when I was a a fellow board member."

shared by Philip Lewer, 1 month ago

"I had known Gary for some time within the NHS Finance world, but over the last few years we had been working together as team “Kirklees.” He was always there for you, and I will miss working with him and the support he gave me. I cannot thank him for being there over the last couple of years, he would send texts checking in, making sure I was ok. He was there for me during a really hard time, when he was himself going through his own challenges. I will miss our chats about the kids, who he loved so much and places to visit on countries we had both been, I will even forgive you for being a Leeds fan! Sleep well Gary – thank you, you were the best!"

shared by Alison Needham, 1 month ago

"Despite everything that life threw at him, Gary has always been the person that gave everyone time and showed genuine interest in them and making them smile through countless stories from his past! From my first meeting with him across the contracting table with MYH, to walking into CHFT on my first day and asking him what he was doing there and all the times after we've discussed life often before work. The impact of his kindness and calming approach through his stories and common sense will always live on with us... along with his passed on haribo obsession!

He led by example, genuinely being a nice guy who cared for other people and strangers alike, although not many people who met Gary could remain strangers to him for long. He will be missed and remembered by all the people who had the opportunity to meet him. Thank you and rest in peace mate, you've definitely earnt it!"

shared by Martyn Housecroft, 1 month ago

"I was so very sad to hear of the loss of such a lovely gentleman, CFO and leader. Gary had a knack of making everything simple and understandable, even complex finance issues for us non-finance folks! The qualities Gary demonstrated on a daily basis - empathy, patient focus, kindness and integrity - will provide a lasting legacy for those who were lucky enough to work with him. He will be sadly missed."

shared by Catherine Wormstone, 1 month ago

"I met Gary on one of our organ donation study days, when he came and shared his story of his experiance of recieving a transplant. I was inspired by the way he spoke and how open and honest he was about his experiance. Just from a brief meeting I can tell his encoragement and warmth will be missed by those who knew him best, and send love and thoughts to all who will miss him."

shared by Catherine Smith, 1 month ago

"I’m so saddened to hear about your passing Gary. It feels unreal that someone who had such a steady, generous presence is suddenly gone.

You were more than a colleague — you were a mentor in the truest sense. You shared your knowledge freely, guided with patience, and led by example every single day. I learned so much from you, not just about the work, but about integrity, humility, and how to treat others with respect.

Your belief in me made a difference at moments when I needed it most. You had a way of offering guidance that was honest yet kind, challenging yet supportive. That balance is rare, and I will always be grateful for it.
The impact you had on my growth and confidence and your lessons, your standards, and your quiet encouragement will stay with me .

You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.
Thank you for everything you gave so selflessly."

shared by Vicky, 1 month ago

"I’ve met some great people, some truly inspirational ones. Gary I’ve known for a short moment, but he has left long lasting memories of what genuine goodness means. He was friendly, interested in finding about you and laughed and smiled much making often difficult situations a forgotten memory. He took things in his stride, was surrounded by an awe of positive energy and I felt welcome in his presence. Condolences to Gary’s family, friends, finance teams and anyone that he touched with his gentleness.

Great people are hard to find
Kindness, calmness and compassion came clearly, naturally
Loved, respected and smiled bringing hope for Mondays not just fascinating Fridays
Looking forward to more meetings, Team Briefs and teas
A great genuine gentle giant, a great Gary, great people are hard to find, naturally.

Mohammad Maqsood"

shared by Mohammad Maqsood, 1 month ago

"Gary was the most down to earth DOF you will ever meet. The most approachable boss with fantastic people skills. He always made everyone welcome and valued. As most have said brilliant at his job, but I will mostly remember his witty remarks in team meetings and banter. As a football fan we shared many chats but the story that still makes me smile was when he went on a work Christmas night out where he ended up sharing a large bar bill of expensive wines etc when he had only had a couple of very cheap pints. As a true Yorkshire man and DOF he wasn't chuffed but still laughed it off. He is a big loss to CHFT and the NHS community. Sending love and strength to Gary's family and friends xx"

shared by Paula Crowther, 1 month ago

"Working with Gary was a privilege I will always value. He combined professionalism with warmth and had a way of making everyone feel supported and listened to.

I first worked with Gary in my role at the ICB, where he was Place Director of Finance for Kirklees Health & Care Partnership. He made me feel welcome then, and upon joining CHFT, was supportive and took the time out of his busy day to reconnect and welcome me again.

I will always remember his integrity, his wisdom, and the encouragement he gave so freely. He made a real difference — not just to CHFT, but to the people within it and the local population we serve. His values were the values of CHFT; we’ll always do it the right way and do right by our people. That is his legacy, that will live on in the many lives he touched.

My thoughts and prayers are with Treena, Harry, Alice and Archie, as well as wider friends and family."

shared by Miles Jefford, 1 month ago

"I haven’t known Gary very long compared to many. When I joined CHFT he spent considerable time with me taking me through the journey the Trust has been on. He was kind, patient and I could absolutely trust his advice and guidance. He faced his ill health with such bravery and positivity. I don’t think I have ever seen such strength in anyone. He has left a big hole around our board table - not just as FD but as a leader, a strategist, a communicator and 100% commitment. Thank you Gary."

shared by Helen Hirst, 1 month ago

"Gary will be missed so much by so many; Gary always took the time time to stop to chat, no matter how busy, to ask about holidays, favourite places, family - he never seemed disapointed he couldn't really chat to me about football, but I am sure he was! Gary was such a calming influence and was always happy to offer advice, he had that knack of making everyone feel valuded. Gary also had a special skill of chairing meetings, always listening with interest, ensuring there was no conflict and making everyone feel an equal part. All these things, and more, were the reasons Gary was so respected and why people wanted to succeed for him.

My condolences go to his family, who he talked about often with such love and pride."

shared by Val Rigg, 1 month ago

"I met Gary on my second day in the NHS. I'd joined from local government as a wide-eyed middle manager. It is a testament to the man that Gary was that he was as kind to me on that day as he was for the many years after that. He treated everyone with warmth, good grace and never flinched when you asked a silly question. A wonderful colleague and a wonderful human whose absence will be keenly felt by so many of us."

shared by Lucy Cole, 1 month ago

"My sincere condolences to Gary's family. Gary was both brilliant at his job and cared about people, not just his own team but everyone he worked with. What a joy to have known him. As many have described, during my own times of needing support Gary has taken the time to reach out a hand.We miss him deeply, and can barely imagine how it is for his whole family, the people he loved the most."

shared by Catherine Riley, 1 month ago

"I feel blessed that I ended my career working for a true gentleman such as Gary. Clever, pragmatic, grounded and always supportive. How can I forget annual appraisals held over a fry up breakfast in a cafe, mostly talking about football, but that was Gary! I will miss him as a friend."

shared by Ian Rawson, 1 month ago

"I have only got to know Gary over the last year or two but it is clear he has had such an positive impact on so many people over the years. Gary has been so kind and supportive and always considered others points of view, whilst bringing humour to the daily grind. My thoughts are with Gary's family at this incredibly sad time."

shared by Marie Dearman, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary for almost 10 years as part of the PFI partnership with Gary being our direct client for most of these years. Gary's approach and personality meant that the partnership flourished resulting in improvements for the Trust and patient care within facility services. The respect which Gary had within the ISS and by myself was huge, we recognised that he respected us also and he treated us with warmth and kindness and an opportunity to have open, meaningful discussions. Gary would call in for a coffee, enjoying a bacon sandwich on many occasions, for a chat and he would always ask how you were and talk of family and social plans. He made you feel that he was genuinely interested in you as a person and I enjoyed his visits and our chats. When I told Gary I was leaving Calderdale 3 years ago he was really supportive and showed his appreciation for the time we had worked together and we stayed in touch. Gary was one of the warmest, kindest, most genuine people I have ever met and he will be a huge loss to the organisation but to his wonderful family who he spoke of with love and happiness. I am so glad I had the opportunity to work with Gary and I will miss him so much"

shared by Tracy Rawcliffe, 1 month ago

"I have only known Gary for around 4 years; but in that short time, I have seen immense kindness and caring from him to all those he worked with – even those of us he only worked with occasionally. He made the effort to know the person, not just the role and would quickly find common ground with them. Our youngest children were the same age and we chatted about our shared experiences. He treated everyone with respect and was a true gentleman. He will very much be missed. My deepest condolences to his family and friends at this really difficult time."

shared by Visseh Pejhan-Sykes, 1 month ago

"It's difficult to know what to say at this very sad time. The memories share by others here are testament to how Gary made people feel - valued and seen. Gary was a leader with a big job to do, yet did it without forgetting who he was and whilst remembering what was important to people - connection. I never saw Gary without a smile on his face, he never passed without saying hello and it was so easy to fall into a conversation and come out laughing and feeling a little lighter. I am so deeply sorry for the loss his family must be feeling. A truly lovely bloke who will be remembered with great fondness."

shared by TP, 1 month ago

"Gary appointed me to my current role at MYHT. I can picture him now, sat in the chair next to my desk, almost horizontal, enjoying a pick and mix with a big smile and some good old Yorkshire humour. Always supportive and calm, gentle and kind. Sincere condolences to your family, very many friends and colleagues at this very sad time. Gary you will be greatly missed by many, may you rest in eternal peace."

shared by Angie Taylor, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary at MYTT. As most people have said he was a genuinely lovely person. Extremely personable, very kind and considerate, and always had time for a natter. He would love to sit and lean back on his chair and ask about your weekend or your family, with his snack supplies not too far away. Gary you will be missed, it was a pleasure working with you. Sending my thoughts to his family."

shared by Samantha Smith, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary at Mid Yorkshire Trust. In fact he was responsible for me taking the job at MYTT. He was a lovely man. So friendly and approachable. Always appeared relaxed and calm no matter what the job or life threw at him. He will be sorely missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know him."

shared by Teresa Pearson, 1 month ago

"Having read all of the lovely comments, I am not sure I will be saying anything that hasn't already been said by so many. Gary recruited me into the NHS 10 years ago, and for that I will be forever grateful, as it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my career. Gary was one of life's genuinely good guys - a supportive, thoughtful and intelligent person who, no matter how busy, always had time for you. A giant of a man and an inspirational leader. Thoughts are with all of Gary's family, friends and colleagues at this extremely sad time."

shared by Matt Barker, 1 month ago

"As said by many others already, Gary was kind, compassionate, able to see other's points of view and keen to support those around him. I've worked in the system with him over the last dozen years and he's always been someone I could just ring for a chat and chew through whatever was the particular issue of the day. I'll sorely miss him!
All the best to his family and friends."

shared by Jenny Ehrhardt, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary for over 4 years and I can honestly say that he was the kindest person I’ve ever met. When my godmother was in hospital and having a difficult time Gary went and sat with her, in his lunch break, cheered her up and gave her the confidence to think about life after hospital. He didn’t know her and, despite his own health issues, he was kind enough to help someone in need. RIP Gary you will be missed."

shared by Liz Mear, 1 month ago

"I worked with Gary at CHFT before I moved to Liverpool. He was a lovely wise man who gave you confidence to achieve whatever you wanted. He always had a kind word and joke and I know he will truly missed by all who had the pleasure and privilege of knowing him.
My heartfelt condolences to all his family and friends."

shared by Helen Wells, 1 month ago

"Gary was the last DoF I worked for prior to my retirement and the saying ‘saving the best till last’ was indeed the case. Gary was always interested in you as a person, not just a work colleague. He always made time to talk whether it was a conversation relating to work, family or football. Following my retirement, out of the blue, Gary would take time out to drop me messages to find out how things were going, asking about family etc. Gary was a kind, generous and caring gentle giant.
I would like to take this opportunity to send my heartfelt condolences to Gary’s family at this very sad time.
Gary R.I.P"

shared by Betty Sewell, 1 month ago

"Gary what a true gentleman!!!
He always had time for you, either a brew or to perch on the end of your desk for a chat.
A massive loss to the Trust & Finance Dept.
My thoughts are with his family at this unbelievably sad time!!!!!"

shared by Catherine Cannon, 1 month ago

"I had the pleasure of first meeting Gary, with his signature smile, when he came for his interview for the Deputy DoF role in 2016. What a lovely, kind and genuine person. A brilliant boss who always had time for people, supporting them as much as they were supporting him. He was a true gentleman for whom I had the greatest respect. How lucky we in Finance were to know Gary and be a part of his team. It cannot be underestimated how deeply his loss will be felt and my thoughts are with his family and all those who knew him. Rest in peace, Gary."

shared by Judith Cruickshank, 1 month ago

"Such sad news, Gary was the genuine article. Down to earth, funny and helpful. My condolences go out to his family and friends, he will be missed!"

shared by Charlotte Henson, 1 month ago

"What a person and what a loss. I first met Gary about 6 years ago, when I started with CHS. He was so friendly and helpful, giving me clear guidance on my most basic question. (and I had many). I remember my induction conversation with Gary, from the outset, he was hospitable, welcoming and made as much time for me as I needed. He was never judgemental, always supportive and encouraging, and whenever I had a question for him since, he never changed in his approach. He will be missed."

shared by Mark Adderley, 1 month ago

"Gary, what a truly lovely gentleman, an inspirational leader, brave and humorous. He genuinely cared and that shone through in everything he did. He always had time for you, would pull up a chair for a chat, or perch on the end of your desk. He was so down to earth and easy to chat to despite his DoF role. I’ll never forget the Teams calls during the early days of Covid checking in with us that we were okay despite his own challenges at the time.
My thoughts are with his family I can only imagine the loss they are feeling.
He's irreplaceable, one in a million."

shared by Sarah McMahon, 1 month ago

"What a kind and compassionate man. Friendly and approachable and always had time to chat whilst making his cuppa or about finance queries we may have had despite his position. His good humour never failed him, even when i saw him sat outside Primark in Leeds waiting for his wife and daughter to do their shopping he had a smile on his face and time for a joke. He really will be missed."

shared by Emma Griffiths, 1 month ago

"Words I would use when thinking about Gary: A gentleman, kind, caring, compassionate, articulate, professional, friendly and very approachable. Whenever Gary was over in Trust Offices at Calderdale he'd always find time to nip in to my office for a catch-up. When the husband of a mutual friend of mine and Gary's passed away, Gary was the first person to send me an email, not only to express his condolences, but to offer support - anything I needed, I just had to let him know. Thankfully, I still have that email. Whatever was thrown Gary's way in terms of his health, he dealt with admirably. His passing has left a HUGE hole, not only in the organisation, but in the lives of every single person who knew him, such a sad loss. May he now rest in peace. My thoughts are with his family - I cannot start to imagine what they are going through, but I hope they take comfort from the outpouring of love for their husband and father, a very special man."

shared by Sue Laycock, 1 month ago

"Worked with Gary at Pennine, then Mid Yorks and CHFT - although Gary would no doubt have said given I was at the SHA, TDA, NHSI and NHSE that he was the one doing the work and I was the one checking up on his work! A genuinely nice bloke who you could always have a laugh with. My sincerest thoughts are with his family."

shared by Stephen Downs, 1 month ago

"I first met Gary at Pennine Acute around 15 years ago before he moved back to work in Yorkshire. He was a pleasure to be around and made an impact that made me happy to meet up with him again around 5 years later when we both came to CHFT around the same time. A lovely man who commanded respect but had time for everybody. Of course we talked football with our rival other side of the Pennines teams but it was all fun and his calm nature in meetings was the attitude I liked to see. We had a lovely chat just before Christmas about the changing nature of the Boards at NHS organisations where we agreed it was for the better and I will miss him around and his gentle disposition. Gary you are such a great loss take care mate."

shared by Peter Keogh, 1 month ago

"I’m finding it really hard to deal with a loss like this. It hits me in the smallest moments, the tea cakes and huge sandwich box in the fridge, even when I clean my glasses the way we both did every morning. We used to stand there talking about the excitement of becoming grandparents and beloved uncles, laughing about being tight Yorkshire men, and tackling the odd finance question that Gary somehow always made easy for me to understand.
Now it just feels like something is missing. One of the good ones has gone. Loss is eternal, and I know the days will slowly get easier, but you can tell the measure of a man by how deeply he’s missed. And we all feel this one.
A true legend, I’d say."

shared by Richard Hill, 1 month ago

"What can I say about Gary? He was by far the best DoF I’ve ever worked with (sorry Ian if you read this !) He was a gentle giant of a man, so kind and thoughtful. Without fail, he’d ask how I was doing, even after I’d retired and popped into Acre Mills.
When he surprised me on a Teams call with his NG tube in, we took it in our stride and ended up comparing fortisip flavours.
I loved his friendly way of perching on the window sill by my desk to ask a question about the charity.
Another lasting memory is when we had our first Finance get together in Briar Court after Covid/WFH and he made a speech where he said we should be proud of our team and that we do a great job. It was so heartfelt from him and I remember being quite teary at the time.
You will be so very missed, Gary xx"

shared by Carol Harrison, 1 month ago

"I was lucky enough to work with Gary through organ donation. He helped us not just with our local teaching sessions but also happily shared his story further afield. When he talked to us in that room about the difference that organ donation had made to him he was as ever witty, caring and always making light of the health challenges that he faced. A genuinely warm,caring and conscientious colleague. We'll miss him."

shared by Paul Knight, 1 month ago

"I have had the pleasure of knowing Gary for 10 years and after leaving finance a couple of years ago he welcomed me back with open arms in December again, telling me not to leave again.
Gary was such a kind, thoughtful and caring person and has been the best DoF the Trust has had. He would treat everyone with respect and kindness irrespective of what their title or role was, he would get to know you as a person which is why this sad news has hit so many of us very hard.
There aren't many people in his position that would come and perch on your desk to ask about how your weekend was or how the family is, he was just a total gentleman and will be missed greatly.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Garys family at this sad and difficult time x"

shared by Rhonda Cash, 1 month ago

"My Friend Gary
When we think about Gary the words ‘what a lovely man’ immediately spring to mind.
Some of us have had the pleasure of working with Gary for all his time at CHFT and some for not so long.
Yes, he was our Director of Finance but before that he was a kind and caring boss. No matter what life was throwing at him he always cared how you were and what he could do to help.
He was always there with ‘lets get a brew’ or a thank you card or a surprise delivery or a note when you were not too well.
Words cannot explain how much he was admired and respected and appreciated for the great leader he was.
He knew so much and would also ask questions and be genuinely interested in why things were as they were, asking the question, so what can we do differently to improve care for patients?
Gary was CHFT and we knew we were treasured by him.
His sayings will stick for ever, ‘back up the bus’, ‘crack on’, do you want a brew’. ‘sometimes it’s just the right thing to do’, ‘just keep doing what we do’.
As a Senior Finance Team, we are extremely close, and this was testament to him. We all wanted to do our best and succeed for Gary. Our Monday afternoon meetings always had an element of fun in them and what was going on in our lives.
In short Gary was a friend primarily who had all our respect as our Director of Finance, and no one will ever be able to fill his shoes. Life will never be the same and you have left a great legacy for those new budding accountants. If as a senior team and me as a friend can mentor and mould as you have for the future, I hope you will be immensely proud.
On a very personal note, you have always been my inspiration, a trusted ear, an amazing friend when my life has had its tough times and someone I will always hold dear to my heart.
Relax now my friend and let the pain flow away.
Your friend Jo"

shared by Joanne Hardcastle, 1 month ago

"Gary was one of the most approachable and friendly people I have met.
Not only was he a work colleague, our sons also played for the same junior football team too. We had many a discussion about football on a Saturday morning up at an often cold and windy New College, and we had a great banter despite both supporting Teams who were big rivals!
Will be greatly missed by so many."

shared by Daniel Hawtin, 1 month ago

"So sad to hear the news of Gary passing, my thoughts are with his family. I had the pleasure of attending a lot of meetings with Gary over 4 years and always found him to be patient and extremely helpful. His knowledge will be greatly missed at CHFT."

shared by Linzi Smith, 1 month ago

"Gary was such a lovely kind and friendly person. The best DoF I have ever worked with and I will miss him. He always made time to take my call or offer helpful advise when I was struggling. I learned so much from him , both from listening and observing him chairing a challenging meeting , where he would make sure everyone's opinion was heard and help navigate throgh to a sensible solution and also the wise words he shared on how to write a successful business case . He is, and will continue to be, missed greatly."

shared by Elisabeth Street, 1 month ago

"I have worked alongside Gary for nearly 10 years and right now I feel like Robin without Batman or Morecambe without Wise. That's apt as Gary had wisdom in abundance, along with intelligence and a real sense of calm. He was a really honourable man and a friend to all that he met. He was able to find something in common with everyone, whether talking about football, family or work. He was also really brave, handling life's challenges with humour, often with a hilarious self-depreciating anecdote. Gary will be missed by many."

shared by Kirsty Archer, 1 month ago

"Gary was a giant in so many ways and an example to all of us as to what a decent, good, loving and selfless human being is.
To say Gary will be much missed doesn’t come close. They just don’t make men like Gary any more."

shared by Leo McKenna, 1 month ago

"Gary was truly one-of-a-kind. He had the natural ability to put someone at ease, just by being in the room. I will miss his friendly face, his calm manner and the warmth he exuded to all. Your day would be lighter just by having had a conversation with Gary. My condolences to Treena and the children - he was an incredible person."

shared by Amy Campbell, 1 month ago

"So sorry to hear this very sad news and our condolences to Gary's family, friends and colleagues. Such a nice person, good humoured, engaging to be around, positive and an inspiration to all, he will be really missed."

shared by Stuart Shaw, 1 month ago

"I have never worked in the same team as Gary but worked alongside him; first as deputies and then as Directors of Finance. When I first became a director myself I asked Gary to be my “buddy”. He was the one person I knew I could ask the daft questions and he wouldn’t judge. And he always checked in with me if he thought I was struggling or quieter than normal.
I will miss him hugely. He is one of the kindest and most genuine people I have met and I feel privileged to have worked alongside him."

shared by Amy Whitaker, 1 month ago